...of judging and being judged

Assalamualaikum wbt and hello everyone.

After scrolling a lot of shared posts on Facebook, I came across a video made by a Youtuber about people and their judgements.

The content of the video about our world today is so real; it got me into tears by the end of it. I'm not saying that I'm all nice or I've never judged people for the past 21 years I'm living. All I'm saying is that, how come some of us could simply say words without noticing the other person's feelings?

How come that when we hate a certain figure, we plainly go all saint and comment on their Instagram/Twitter/Facebook or all other social sites harshly? Who gave us the green light to simply do all of those things to them as if they have no feelings at all?

I'm not trying to preach but this matter is happening today and basically, the common act where we should be nice to people isn't common anymore. 

In Malaysia especially, a lot of these 'keyboard warriors' are really proud whenever they post something to embarrass people and include 'make this VIRAL!' as the title. Some of them aren't even true, and you just go spreading rumors not knowing if the source is reliable enough.

Okay. Back to the video, click >>HERE<< it is if you feel like watching it. The title of the video is --> YOU LOOK DISGUSTING . Made by the Youtuber with the Youtube account named My Pale Skin.

You can also watch it here. 

The lady in the video made a social experiment and yes, all the comments said to her are real! They're not made up!

Now. I am so pissed off with how society treats each other. We are human-beings. We love things nice. We like things pretty. We adore things perfect. Admit it.

When someone goes out of their house, with no make up, looking all hideous with some scars or acnes on their faces, showing their original looks, some of us would go; how come she doesn't take care of herself?; how could she carelessly go out of the house like that?

However, when she put all the make up and cover all the flaws on her face, you'd go; OH! You shouldn't! Be proud of yourself~ ; You're so fake. 

What do you really want HUMAN? Why don't you go drown yourselves or you should just don't give a d*mn with what people want to do with their looks? 

Urghhhh.

Honestly (for someone who've been applying some make-ups), we don't wear it because we care how you see us. Personally, I wear em because it made me feel good. It made me feel pretty. There're also some days when I don't apply any and it doesn't mean because I don't care about how I look at all. It just happened to be one of the days where I want my skin to breathe or I don't feel like putting any, just because!

The point here is, we should just let people do what they want.

We are all human-beings. We can't run from having the first bad impression of someone. However, it's what we think afterwards would define who we are. Whether we want to keep judging a person based on their looks or we would want to correct ourselves and just think nicely of that person.

Okay. I guess that's it for my mixed-emotions post of the day.  

To quote one of my favourite figure, Ellen DeGeneres; "Be kind to one another."

Spread kindness, love and positivity. (although I'm not really sure that I'm positive enough in this post >.<)

Thanks for reading!

Love,

Fartvxqhlovate.
Farzanaley.
Farzana Rosley.

...and the pain went away

So assalamualaikum wbt.

These days arent where people love to blogwalk anymore I guess..........so harap-harap ada la jugak sorang dua jawab salam tu haha or else I have to emmmm bajet hebat bukak blog sendiri and jawab salam sendiri? *okay I sound like someone who desperately needs a bog reader but NOPE, it's okay hahaha.

So. Today is the last day of class alhamdulillah. Finally! Foundation classes officially ends! But unfortunately final exam ada lagi la kan. *which I hmmm absolutely dont know what to scribble on the answer sheets next week !!

So last week, or this week's early days (fck whatever day it was) I fall sick. *which I rarely do. So when I did, it was like aghhhhh very teruk, cant even walk, no appetite, this and that and those...........

I was so thankful to my friends around me yang helped out, Kim Biel Wawa and Nana and whoever, yang stopped by at least to say get well soon ehehe.

The worst part of being ill was that I tak suka makan ubat okay. Like seriously I took an hour to finish at least two dose of medicine. Hmm.

But finally I was ehemmm kinda sorta touch when Ummi Abah sanggup turun Kuantan to visit me. *cuz memang I susah sakit kan -.-

I honestly am touched and absolutely terus rasa berdosa haha like yknow been a very ungrateful daughter. But I wasnt that bad laaa hehehe :p

Oh yeaaaa. You must would want to see what makes me almost cried. What my auntie said to me :

Hmmmm. I surely am touched. Sampai harini pun. Cant believe it la. Thanks ummi abah.

InshaAllah Ill do my best in final :')

and so.........the pain went way. Food poisoning and fever, hamdallah and biiznillah, berlalu. (actually sakit lagi 2 days after that but fever no more la hehe)

That's it. Alhamdulilah, semoga Allah redha :D

Love
FarzanaRosley
Fareyfar
Fartvxqhlovate

The interview.

Assalamualaikum.

So today I went to my previous school, SMKA Al-Irshad. I went there for one reason - to interview my English teacher, Madam Zaiton. She had taught me English since form4. However, she knew about me and my friends since form 1 or form 2 cuz we're awesome liddat hahaha. *of course, the record. we were kinda.....famous hahaha. But no harm, sebenarnya we were just being cheeky. There were only some teachers yg didnt really understand teens like us hahaha.

Okay. After melawat, I actually realised that I do, really, miss my schoolhood so much :') I know my foundation year is doing good but I cant help loving my past life - in Irshad :)

Alhamdulillah, I guess I was lucky enough to be part of Irshadian :)

Idk what's wrong w/ my lappy but I cant upload any pictureeeee >.< Penat je aku bukak nak update chaittt.

Hokay, this is the Quote of The Day, (picture edited by me). Exo Kris. :)

Love,
Farzanarosley.
Fartvxqhlovate.
Fareyfar.

Islam dan Melayu – Peribahasa 1

Salam’alayk. How are you guys doing?

Peribahasa yang ingin aku bahaskan di sini ialah ‘Jangan jaga tepi kain orang’

I have to admit for thousand times, I do like most of the Malay quotes. Sebab they’re really good. But some of them are not supposed to be something yang menjadi pegangan. Salah satunya ialah Peribahasa yang telah aku tulis kat atas tuh, ok la I repeat : Jangan jaga tepi kain orang.

Dengan Peribahasa nih, one incident, a case that appeared to be at the front page of the newspapers in Malaysia, crossed my mind. Nak tau isu apa? Isu the kid yang aged around 3-5 years old yang kena tendang dengan bapak dia macam main bola and the saddest thing is the incident was witnessed by the villagers, BUT THEY DID NOTHING! Alasan depa : they tried, tapi the father said, they should not bother. So, depa pun terus tengok jela. Sampai lah that kid died, dengan cara yang sangat kejam. Huihhhh! Now, the peribahasa relate here.

Ada dua keadaan di mana kita sepatutnya pegang Peribahasa tu, and when do we supposed to NOT bother that Peribahasa.

Keadaan 1 : aku nak bagi contoh the vlog – Fiqlipashensem yang cakap pasal anti budak pavilion entah apa tuh. OK, in that condition, he got the point. Aku cakap ni bukan bermaksud aku sokong dia, tapi cuba la husnuszhon sikit dengan budak-budak yang melepak tuh. Mana tau depa tengah buat study group, tapi tak pegang buku. Errr, ok agak kurang bernas, tapi just make it so. Macam what the vlogger – Aimanazlan cakap, we have to make 70 excuses for people. 70 excuses tu Sebenarnya nak latih diri kita untuk husnuszhon terhadap orang lain. In this issue, we can say, ‘Jangan jaga tepi kain orang’. Make it so. This is what I feel la. Tapi kalau depa lepak sampai masuk time semayang Jumaat bagai, what if hampa pi and ajak depa pi solat? Dari dok buat anti-page. That’s just.... nothing. Aku cakap berdasarkan apa yang aku rasa ja. Pasal aku orang Penang, nak pi Pavilion tuh, mintak mahap la. Setaun sekali la kot. Takpa, to those kaki lepak at anywhere, nanti aku bagitau hampa adab melepak dalam Islam. InshaAllah bila aku free ok. Ehe.

Keadaan 2 : Issue tadi yang aku cakap tuh. Pasal budak kecik kena sepak dengan bapak dia yang sungguh amat sangat what the tak bertanggungjawab and whatsoever lah! Aku rasa geram bila tau yang penduduk kampung tu just terus tonton macam tengok wayang lepas bapak dia bagi amaran; Jangan sibuk! Oh my God, sungguh tak pi sekolah. I don’t know what to say. I’m just scared that one day, satu hari nanti, dekat akhirat, that little kid, tuntut dekat orang kampung tuh for what they did. As they did NOTHING. Why should a group of villagers is scared with a father? Mamat tuh singular! You are plural, FIGHT! This time, tolong Jangan cakap : Jangan la jaga tepi kain orang. Oh sorry, memang mintak kasut -.-‘ This time, you don’t have to make it husnuszhon. Takkan lah that father is teaching his kid how to sepak bola? Oh-no, I have to-husnuszhon with-this-father. Maybe he want to teach this kid blablabla. What the fish. That’s just NOT good. Kalau macam tu pemikiran orang Islam Malaysia sekarang, then we can predict how Malaysia is in the future.

OK, always remember that there are some quotes of Malays yang kita tak boleh jadikan pegangan. Make it so. Tak susah. Jadikan The Holy Koran and Hadith as our pegangan. 

Easier.

InshaAllah. Nasihat untuk diriku jua. Yang baik datang dari Allah, yang kurang baik is always from my weakness.

Love,

FARTVXQHLOVATE.

fareyfar.

Islam dan Melayu - Bahasa

Yang wajib kita perjuangkan ialah Islam, bukan bangsa.Perjuangan bangsa ialah perjuangan taghut yang Nabi tidak mengaku ummat.

- Ustaz Ibrahim Libya (1985)

Bila aku cakap aku tak kisah langsung-langsung kalau in the future anak aku speaking twenty-four-seven, kakak aku marah. Malah, bila aku speaking selalu pun, kawan-kawan aku kadang-kadang marah. Hal ni Sebenarnya simple je. Well, yelah kannn. Bahasa jiwa bangsa.

OK. Pasal kakak-kawan aku semua tuh, aku takde heran sangat. Aku tau depa takmau aku lupa diri. OK-OK. Tapi aku nak warn jugak, Jangan sampai semangat sangat dengan bangsa, sampai lupa agama.

Since then,  aku harini nak menulis. Tentang bangsa. OK, aku taknak pulak tulis ayat-ayat yang mungkin membuatkan blog aku popular secara mengejut, tapi aku nak cakap dari sudut pandangan aku sendiri, since aku jumpak kata-kata kat atas tuh :)

Aku rasa kemenangan macam di pihak aku. Eheh.

Meaning, aku rasa tak salah je orang nak speaking 24-7-30-365, as long as dia takde gagap nak baca Quran, takde terbelit lidah nak sebut nama Allah. Pada aku, that’s not a crime. Aku tak de masalah dengan orang yang cintakan Bahasa Melayu. Dan aku pun OK je dengan BM. Tapi aku bermasalah dengan orang yang terlalu cintakan Bahasa Melayu sampai tak bagi orang cakap Bahasa Inggeris misalnya. Aku pelik pulak, kenapa takde orang nak marah bila orang cakap Bahasa Arab? Ohhh, tau pulak Arabic tuh Bahasa Syurga. Dah tu, nak heran apa kalau dia speaking, tapi dia reti solat-segala. Aku rasa hal tuh tak perlu la nak dibesarkan sangat.

Tapi dari aspek peperiksaan, aku tau la. Mana boleh tak gheti bahasa Malaysia langsung kan-kan. Tambah pulak duduk dalam negara Malaysia tapi taktau BM, nanti tak boleh pulak nk interact dengan orang lain. Heh,

Tah la kann. Zaman sekarang nih, cakap salah, tak cakap pun lagi salah. Zaman sekarang nih, the truth tu yang salah.

Betui dakkk? Kann kaannnn? Hampa pikiaq balikkkk, penting sangat kaa Bahasa Melayu tu kalau ikutkannn? Aku suruh pikiaq dari sudut agama OK.  Sebab pandangan apa yang perlu kita letakkan di tempat pertama? Pandangan agama, people!

Ni aku baru cakap bab Bahasa nih, tah berapa juta orang nakmarah, aku pun tak tau. Haha, belum masuk part lain lagi kann.

Aku tak mengatakan aku sempurna dari segenap sudut. Tapi when people speak in the other language from our bangsa, let them be. BESIDES THAT, TAK SALAH BELAJAR OTHER LANGUAGE MANNNN! NAK BERDAKWAH LAGI SENANG APAAA? And yes, buat tak heran dah la kalau dia nak jadi mat-minah-saleh celup pun. Ada dia kacau duit kita? Dakk kaaann. Buat bodo dah la. Ada dia kacau result paper BM kitaaa? Dak kannn? Heh, lainla kalau result BM dia terukk, haaa gelak la. Heh.

Tah laaa aku pun taktauu. Apapunn, teguran nih untuk diri aku jugak. Baik dari Allah, buruk semua dari kelemahan aku.

Love, Fartvxqhlovate.

Aku tak suka Mubarak tuh.

*left, Zlatko Buric (Yuri Karpov)-2012. *right, Hosni Mubarak.

Assalam.

"Aku tk suka Mubarak tuh" - sorang kawan aku cakap.

then aku pun terkejut. Oh, dia nih hebat.

ambil tau jugak hal dunia. aku taktau pulak.

so, aku pun tanya.

"weh, aaa. kenapa yeah? orang meluat dengan dia tuh?

dia macam Hitler ka apa?"

Kawan aku dengan muka seposen jawab,

"TAK ah. Muka dia macam mamat gemok Russia dalam cerita '2012' tuh.

Sebab tuh aku meluat tengok."

"errrr -.-' " 

Karut betul kawan aku nih.

HAHA :D

yang aku tau,

Mesir dah free sekarang.

Oh tahniah.

Semoga aman dan selamat kembali.

LOVE,

Fartvxqhlovate <3